YOU JUST GOTTA LOVE EM!

May 31, 2008 betrue2u

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I have question for my sisters out there…..Do you have a friend that makes you want to just slap the shit out of them sometimes?

 

I mean I love all of my girls and have been there through thick and thin and will continue to be there in anyway I can for each one of them…..but damn! I know I’m not alone when I say at times you just want to reach out and slap the shit out of one of them.  They ask you for your advice (which I say must be for venting purposes) because they end doing whatever they want to do anyway, which is usually completely the opposite of your advise. They cry on your shoulder, complaining about that man for the tenth time regarding the same damn thing and for the tenth time they say “that’s it, I’m not going through this anymore…..but what do they do?  I know somebody can answer that question with me THEY GO BACK, HE GIVES THEM A LITTLE LOVING AND SHE’S RIGHT BACK IN THE SAME SHIT, AND UNDER HIS SPELL AGAIN! LOL But we still keep on being that loving friend, gritting our teeth to hold back that slap. I guess they feel the same way about us sometimes as well, but not often with me, because I’d want to be slapped if I did this. LOL For me it’s like this, if I know that I’m going to do what I want to do then I don’t ask for advice, I just do the damn thing and if there is an issue I need advice on then I ask for it and most of the time I follow the advice given. However if it’s advice that I don’t agree with for whatever reason then I say so and we move on. As far as me giving advice, now it really depends on the situation. Something simple and in general sure I’m there but when it comes to relationships, I  tend to move according to the direction I see that particular friend leaning because I want them to take some time and listen to their heart, and truly evaluate the situation and simply make a decision as to if this is what they really want for themselves. The reason I do this is because only they can determine when they’ve had enough of a particular situation and NO MATTER what you say, if they have not had enough they are going to continue in the same direction.  I can only express my feelings and that’s it. I don’t even say “what I would do is” anymore because I’ve learned that even though we have a lot in common and we have been friends for many years and probably know more about one another than our families, WE ARE STILL TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT PERSONS and we may or may not react to situations in the same manner.

 

Just a little something that was on my mind that I wanted to express!

 

Remember to always Betrue2u J

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• 1. Ensayn  |  June 6, 2008 at 2:52 pm

  BeTrue2U, I guess u do have to just love them. I know I have a best friend I’ve known since 4th grade (I won’t tell how many years that is) and he has just basically stopped talking to us old friends. We all live in the same city now, but he acts as if he never knew us, now that he has a girlfriend. LOL the last time I talked to him about his ways he said “You know how I am when I get a new girlfriend…” I laughed and reminded him they have been together for about 5 years now. It is a good thing when you have a relationship and it still feels new after 5 years. But, why dump your old friends? Oh well I will never understand, but hey you just gotta love’em..

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