Many of us in search of a relationship get all wrapped up into appearances such as: How many curves a woman has or how big a man’s muscles are, and how light or dark the skin is. We focus on the label of the clothing they’re wearing or what kind of car they drive or how big the house is they are living in. We also focus ourselves on and often make the first question out of our mouths….”What kind of work do you do and how much money do you make” We concern ourselves with what our friends and family might think of this person.  Now believe me, I understand that we all want someone a lil easy on the eyes if I may put it that way LOL! But, from experience I have learned not to make determinations only according to that which is seen with the eye but rather take the time to get to know and to learn a person from the inside out instead of from the outside in. Focus not so much on how good that person makes you look while hanging on your arm, but rather how good he/she is able to make you feel deep down heart and soul, how sensitive, caring and attentive that person is to you. All though it’s always wonderful to have a mate who can hold their own and yours too if need be, let’s not make that our main focus. Rather, let’s focus on the dreams, goals and ambitions of one another and what we can do to flourish and build an empire together. We must continue to invest time in one another by sharing, communicating, being submissive to one another and strive to adapt to and go through circumstances together. Never stop learning each other and remain willing to do whatever it takes to keep the relationship real and hot! In doing this you will gain a best friend, a great companion, a true and unconditional love all in one. And remember to always BE TRUE 2 U.